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         Positive Daily Quotes,  For Your Motivation


Failures are like skinned knees, painful but superficial.

-- H. Ross Perot


Man's biggest mistake is to believe that he's working for someone else.

-- Nashua Cavalier


Growth itself contains the germ of happiness.

-- Pearl S. Buck


I always try to believe the best of everybody -- it saves so much trouble.

-- Rudyard Kipling


Bite off more than you can chew, then chew it.

-- Ella Williams


Things turn out best for the people who make the best of the way things turn out.

-- Art Linkletter


Great works are performed not by strength but by perseverance.

-- Samuel Johnson


Always do right--this will gratify some and astonish the rest.

-- Mark Twain


In actual life every great enterprise begins with and takes its first forward step in faith.

-- Schlegel


If you want things to be different, perhaps the answer is to become different yourself.

-- Norman Vincent Peale


None are so empty as those who are full of themselves.

-- Benjamin Whichcote


The splendid achievements of the intellect, like the soul, are everlasting.

-- Sallust


Don't let what you're being  get in the way of what you might become.

-- Harry Palmer


Wealth is enjoying what we already have, not getting more of what we think will make us happy.

-- Peter McWilliams


Our greatest glory is not in never falling but in rising every time we fall.

-- Confucius


Without courage, wisdom bears no fruit.

-- Baltasar Gracian


Those who love deeply never grow old; they may die of old age, but they die young.

-- Sir Arthur Pinero


Minds are like parachutes - they only function when open.

-- Thomas Robert Dewar


Example is not the main thing in influencing others. It is the only thing.

-- Dr. Albert Schweitzer


Anything the human mind can believe, the human mind can achieve.

-- Napoleon Hill


The real secret to success is enthusiasm.

-- Walter Chrysler


The way to succeed is to double your failure rate.

-- Henry Ford


Opportunities multiply as they are seized, they die when neglected.

-- John Wicker


She who would move the world must first move herself.

-- Edward Ericson who wrote (He first)

--  Dakini Marissa who changed He to She


The one who says it can't be done is generally interrupted by someone doing it.

-- Harry Emerson Fosdick


You will become as small as your controlling desire; as great as your dominant aspiration.

-- James Allen


Let everyone sweep in front of his own door, and the whole world will be clean.

-- Goethe



Solitude and silence teach me to love my sisters & brothers for what they are, not for what they say.

-- Dakini Marissa


Management is doing things right; leadership is doing the right things.

-- Peter Drucker


Things don't turn up in this world until somebody turns them up.

-- James A. Garfield


Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer but wish we didn't.

-- Erica Jong


Anyone who has never made a mistake has never tried anything new.

-- Albert Einstein


There came a time when the risk to remain tight in the bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.

-- Anais Nin


The past should be a springboard not a hammock.

-- Irving Ball



Never fear shadows. They simply mean there's a light shining somewhere nearby.

-- Ruth E Renkel



The secret of success is to do common things uncommonly well.

-- John D. Rockefeller



People forget how fast you did a job -- but they remember how well you did it.

-- Howard W. Newton


You always pass failure on the way to success.

-- Mickey Rooney


To be aware of a single shortcoming in oneself is more useful than to be aware of a thousand in someone else.

-- Dalai Lama


Behold the turtle: He only makes progress when he sticks his neck out.

-- James Bryant Conant


It's kind of fun to do the impossible.

-- Walt Disney


A woman who dares to waste an hour of time has not discovered the value of life.

-- Dakini


The greatest part of our happiness depends on our dispositions, not our circumstances.

-- Martha Washington


Fall down seven times, stand up eight.

-- Japanese Proverb


I make the most of all that comes and the least of all that goes.

-- Sara Teasdale


If there is no wind, row.

-- Latin Proverb


We fear things in proportion to our ignorance of them.

-- Livy


 

Life is what happens to you while you are busy making other plans.
-- John Lennon


Solitude and silence teach me to love my sisters for what they are, not for what they say.

-- Dakini


Let everyone sweep in front of his own door, and the whole world will be clean.

-- Goethe


If you want anything said, ask a man. If you want something done, ask a woman.

-- Margaret Thatcher


A man that studieth revenge keeps his own wounds green, which otherwise would heal and do well.

-- Francis Bacon


The entrepreneur always searches for change, responds to it, and exploits it as an opportunity.

-- Peter Drucker


The greatest part of our happiness depends on our dispositions not our circumstances.

-- Martha Washington


I do not want the peace that passeth understanding; I want the understanding that bringeth peace

-- Helen Keller


I am an optimist; it does not seem too much use being anything else

-- Winston Churchill


Even if you’re on the right track; you’ll get run over if you just sit there

-- Will Rogers


There is more to life than increasing  its speed

-- Dakini Marissa


The thing always happens that you believe in; and the belief in the thing makes it happen

-- Frank Lloyd Wright


It is never too late to be who you might have been

-- George Eliot


Middle age is when you’ve met so many people that every knew person you meet reminds you of someone else

-- Ogden Nash


Nature arms each person with some faculty which enables us to do easily some feat impossible to any other

-- Ralph Waldo Emerson


The minute you settle for less than you deserve, you get less than you settled for

-- Maureen Dowd


I am not afraid of tomorrow, for I have seen yesterday and love today

-- William Allen White


The irony is that the person not taking the risks feels the same amount of fear as the person who reguarily takes risks

-- Peter McWilliams


Character develops itself in the stream of life

-- Geothe


Act if what you do makes a difference.  It does

-- William James


Nobody has ever measured, not even a poet, how much a heart can hold

-- Zelda Fitzgerald


If we had no faults, we should not take pleasure in noting those of others

-- Francois De La Rochefoucauld


We must do things we think you think you cannot do

--Eleanor Roosevelt


Be yourself; everyone else is already taken

-- Oscar Wilde


You can’t be anything if you want to be everything

-- Solomon Schechter


Love life and it will love you back; love people and they will love you back

-- Arthur Rubinstein


It’s kind of fun to do the impossible

-- Walt Disney


Life consists not in holding good cards but in playing those you hold well

-- Josh Billings


Let everyone sweep in front of their own door, and the whole world will be clean

-- Goethe


Just because everything is different doesn’t mean that everything has changed

-- Irene Peter


Opportunity is missed by most people because it’s dressed in overalls and looks like work

-- Thomas Alva Edison


Energy is equal to desire and purpose

-- Sheryl Adams


Nothing would be done at all if a woman waited until she could do it so well that no one could find fault with it

-- Dakini


A child needs your presence more than your presents

-- Jesse Jackson


Great minds have purposes, others have wishes

--  Washington Irving


You can see a lot just by looking

-- Yogi Berra


Let your hook always be cast.  In the pool where you least expect it, will be a fish

-- Ovid


Failure is an opportunity to begin again more intelligently

-- Henry Ford


Pessimism never won any battle

-- Dwight D Eisenhower


Only passions, great passions elevate the soul to great things

-- Denis Diderot


Judge each day not by the harvest you reap but by the seeds you plant

-- Robert Louise Stevenson


Thinking is easy, acting is difficult, and putting one’s thoughts into action is the most difficult thing in the world

-- Johann Wolfgang von Goethe


It’s not whether you get knocked down, it’s whether you get back up

-- Dakini


The true means to  being misled it to believe oneself finer than the others

-- Francois de la Rouchefouchald


If you have always done it that way, it is probably wrong

-- Charles Kettering


Each problem that I solved became a rule which served afterwards to solve other problems

-- Rene Descartes


Life is never more fun than when you’re the underdog competing with the giants

-- H Ross Perot


Success is not the result of spontaneous combustion, you must set yourself on fire

-- Reggie Leach


What we see depends mainly on what we look for

-- Sir John Lubbock


The irony is that the person not taking risks feels the same amount of fear as the person who regularly takes risks

-- Peter McWilliams


Wealth is enjoying what we already have, not getting more of what we think will make us happy

-- Peter McWilliams


And in the end, it’s not the years in your life that count.  It’s the life in your years

--Abraham Lincoln


Yes, risk-taking is inherently failure-prone.  Otherwise it would be called sure-thing-taking

--Tim McMahon


The first problem for all of us, women and men, it not to learn, but unlearn

-- Gloria Steinem


Hard work without talent is a shame, but talent without hard work is a tragedy

-- Robert Half


There are two kinds of failures; those who thought and never did, and those who did and never thought

-- Laurence J Peter


We are constantly invited to be who we are

-- Henry David Thoreau


The most extraordinary people in the world today don’t have a career.  They have a mission

-- Vishen Lakhiani


One of the hardest things in life is having words in your heart that you can’t utter

-- James Earl Jones


As you ramble on through your life sisters and brothers; keep your eyes on the donut, not the hole!

-- Dr Murray Banks


The demand to be loved is the greatest of all arrogant presumptions

--  Friedrick Nietzsche


We all have ability.  The difference is how we use it

-- Stevie Wonder


We will either find a way or make one

-- Hannibal


If you can imagine it, you can achieve it.  If you can dream it, you can become it

-- William Arthur Ward


It is better to ask some of the questions than to know all the answers

--  James Thurber


If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together.

-- African Proverb


A goal properly set is halfway reached

-- Abraham Lincoln


Imagination is more important than knowledge. Knowledge is limited.  Imagination encircles the world.

-- Albert Einstein


It takes courage to grow up and turn out to be who you really are

-- E E Cummings


If what you did yesterday seems big, you haven’t done anything today

-- Lou Holtz


Reach high, for stars lie hidden in your soul.  Dream deep, for every dream precedes the goal

-- Pamela Vaull Star


The will to win is not nearly as important than the will to prepare to win

-- Bobby Knight


Lying is done with words and also with silence

-- Adrienne Rich


We are called to be the architects of the future, not its victims

-- Buckminster Fuller


If we all did the things we are capable of doing, we would literally astound ourselves

-- Thomas Alva Edison


To avoid criticism, do nothing, say nothing, be nothing

-- Elbert Hubbard


No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.  Never give it

-- Eleanor Rooseveldt


Old age is 20 years older than I am

-- Dakini


People seem to not see that their opinion in the world is also a confession of character

-- Ralph Waldo Emerson


Before you can see the light you have to deal with the darkness

-- Dan Millman


Failure is the opportunity to begin again more intelligently

-- Henry Ford


If you have no critics you’ll likely have no success

-- Malcolm Forbes


It’s not the strongest of the species that survives, nor the most intelligent, but the one most responsive to change

-- L.C. Megginson


Shun idleness, it is the rust that at tracks itself to the most brilliant metals

-- Voltaire


If someone says “can’t”, that shows you what to do

-- John Cage


Whatever the mind of woman can conceive and believe, it can achieve

-- W Clement Stone


What is to give light must endure the burning

-- Victor Frankl


A fanatic is one who can’t change their mind a won’t change the subject

-- Winston Churchill


Only put off until tomorrow what you are willing to die having left undone

-- Pablo Picasso


Everyone thinks of changing the world, but no  one thinks of changing themselves

-- Tolstoy


To solve big problems you have to be willing to do unpopular things

-- Lee Iococca


We are called to be architects of the future, not its victims

-- Buckminster Fuller


A hunch is creativity trying to tell you something

-- Frank Capra


Never apologize for showing feelings.  When you do so you apologize for the truth

-- Benjamin Desraili


Integrity is the essence of everything successful

-- Buckminster Fuller


When you come to a fork in the road, take it

-- Yogi Berra


You have succeeded in life when all you really want is only what you really need

-- Vernon Howard


Prosperity belongs to those who learn new things the fastest

-- Paul Zain Pilzer


Wisdom is knowing  what to do next, skill is knowing how to do it, and virtue is doing it

-- David Starr Jordan


Never do things that others can do and will do, if there are things others cannot do and will not do

-- Amelia Earhart


Angels fly because they take themselves lightly

-- G K Chesterton


If you have always done it that way, it is probably wrong

-- Charles Kettering


Life is the  art of drawing sufficient conclusions from insufficient premises

-- Samuel Butler


I shall tell you a great secret my friend.  Do not wait for the last judgement, it takes place every day

-- Albert Camus


Never assume the obvious is true

-- William Safire


The care of human life and happiness, and not their destruction, is the first and only object of good government

-- Thomas Jefferson


A goal properly set is halfway reached

-- Abraham Lincoln


An artist never finishes her or his work, they merely abandon it

-- Paul Valary


Love is an ideal thing, marriage is a real thing.  A confusion with the real and the ideal never goes unpunished

-- Goethe


People who fight fire with fire usually end up with ashes

-- Abigail Van Buren


Keep your face to the sunshine and you can never see the shadow

--Helen Keller


To listen well is as  powerful a means of communicating and influence as to talk well

-- John Marshall


Chance favours the prepared mind

-- Louis Pasteur


If you got the guts to stick it out, you are going to make it

-- Brian Hays


Nature is just enough; but women and men must comprehend and accept her suggestions

--  Antoinette Brown Blackwell


You can clutch the past so tightly to your chest that it leaves your arms too full to embrace the present

-- Jan Glidwell


It is no use walking anywhere to preach unless our walking is our preaching

-- St Francis of Assisi


The true measure of a man is how he treats someone who can do him absolutely no good

-- Ann Landers


You must learn from the mistakes of others.  You can’t possibly live long enough to make them all yourself

-- Sam Levensen


The hours that make us happy make us wise

-- John Masefield


Virtue is its own reward

-- Cicero


The philosophy of one century is the common sense of the next

-- Henry Ward Beecher


Hearty laughter is a great way to jog internally without going out doors

-- Norman Cousins


Enthusiasm is the greatest asset in the world.  It beats money, power and influence

-- Henry Chestor


None are so old as those who have outlived enthusiasm

-- Henry David Thoreau


And in the end it’s not the number of years in your life that count.  It’s the life in your years

-- Abraham Lincoln


Common sense is the collection of prejudices acquired by age eighteen

-- Albert Einstein


We believe as much as we can.  We would believe everything if we could

--  William James


Don’t let what you’re being get in the way of what you might become

-- Harry Palmer


The purpose of learning is growth, and our minds, unlike our bodies, can continue growing as we continue to live

-- Mortimer Adler


People who fight fire with fire usually end up with ashes

-- Abigail Van Buren


I learn by going where I have to go

-- Theodore Roethke


An idea that is not dangerous is unworthy of being called an idea at all

-- Don Marquis


I make the most of all that comes and the least of all that goes

-- Sara Teasdale


Let’s train our minds to desire what the situation demands

-- Seneca


If life is to be sustain hope must remain, even where confidence is wounded, trust impaired

-- Eric H Erikson


When your self worth goes up, your net worth goes up with it

-- Mark Victor Hansen


Creativity requires the courage to let go of certainties

-- Eric Fromm


Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one’s courage

-- Anais Nin


What is to give light must endure the burning

-- Victor Frankl


We all have ability.  The difference is how we use it

-- Stevie Wonder


Keep your face to the sunshine and you can never see the shadow

--  Helen Keller


Every production of genius must be the production of enthusiasm

-- Benjamin D’Israeli


You get paid to impact the world, not to be impacted by it

-- Mal Pancoast


Life is never more fun than when you’re the underdog competing with the giants

-- H. Ross Perot


The work you do while you procrastinate is probably the work you should  be doing for the rest of your life

-- Jessica Hische


Dreams never hurt anyone if she keeps working right behind the dream to make as much of it come real as she can

-- Dakini


In actual life every great enterprise begins with and takes its first forward step in faith

-- Schegel


Tact is the  ability to describe others as they see themselves

-- Eleanor Chaffee


Standing for right when it is unpopular is a true test of moral character

-- Margaret Chase Smith


The world does not pay for what the person knows.  But it pays for what a person does with what she/he knows

-- Lawrence Lee


We are all inclined to judge ourselves by our ideals; others, by their acts

-- Harold Nicolson


It’s no use saying, “We are doing our best.”  You have got to succeed in doing what is necessary

-- Winston Churchill


Things turn out the best for the people that make the best of the way things turn out

-- Art Linkletter


What you love is a sign from your higher self of what you are to do

-- Sanaya Roman


Judge each day not by the harvest you reap but by the seeds you plant

-- Robert Louis Stevenson


What good is an idea if it remains an idea?  Try. Experiment.  Iterate.  Fail .  Try again.  Change the world.

-- Simon Sinek


The human mind, once stretched by an new idea, never regains its original dimensions

-- Oliver Wendell Holmes


He awakens the Goddess in me. I elevate the God in him. True balance.

--  Dakini


Creativity is intelligence having fun

-- Albert Einstein


You can get anything in life you want if you will just help enough other people get what they want

-- Zig Ziglar


The impossible is often the untried

-- Jim Goodwin


Those who contemplate the beauty of the earth find reserves of strength that will endure as long as life lasts

-- Rachel  Carson


Effort and courage are not enough without purpose and direction

-- John F Kennedy


You’r not obligated to win.  You’re obligated to keep trying to do the best you can do everyday

-- Marian Wright Edelman


The philosophy of one century is the common sense of the next

-- Henry Ward Beecher


Know and believe in yourself, and what others think won’t disturb you

-- William Feather


If you do what you’ve always done, you’ll get what you’ve always gotten

-- Tony Robbins


Every creator experiences the chasm between their inner vision and its ultimate expression

-- Isaac Bashevis Singer


Practical people would be more practical if they would take a little more time for dreaming

-- P. J. McEvoy


Success is never final and failure never fatal.  It’s courage that counts

-- Jules Ellinger


Too bad that all the people who really know how to run the country are too busy driving taxi cabs and cutting hair

-- George Burns


Truth is not only violated by false-hood; it may be equally outraged by silence

-- Henri Frederic Amiel


Without courage, wisdom bears no fruit

-- Baltasar Gracian


Your fortune is not something to find but to unfold

-- Eric Butterworth


What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us

-- Oliver Wendal Holmes


Miracles are not in contradiction to nature.  They are only in contradiction to what we know of nature

-- Saint Augustine


Argue for your limitations and they are yours

-- Richard Bach


Age is something that doesn’t matter unless you are a cheese

-- Billie Burke


She or he who has got rid of the disease “Tomorrow” has the possibility to attain what She or he is here for

-- G. I. Gurdjieff


Fall down seven times, stand up eight

-- Japanese Proverb


A little knowledge that acts is worth infinitely more than much knowledge that is idle

-- Kahlil Gibran


The more I want to get something done, the less I call it work

-- Richard Bach


Truth is not only violated by falsehood; it may be equally outraged by silence.

-- Henri-Frederic Amiel


Smooth seas do not make skillful sailors.

-- African Proverb


Never tell your problems to anyone.  20 percent don't care and the other 80 percent are glad you have them.

-- Lou Holtz


The splendid achievements of the intellect, like the soul, are everlasting.

-- Sallust


There are two kinds of failures: those who thought and never did, and those who did and never thought.

-- Laurence J. Peter


The more you care, the stronger you can be.

-- Jim Rohn


When you're at the end of your rope, tie a knot and hold on.
-- Theodore Roosevelt


Fear defeats more people than any other one thing in the world.

-- Ralph Waldo Emerson


Sisters and brothers minds, once stretched by a new idea, never regains its’ original dimensions.

-- Dakini


She/he that will not apply new remedies must expect new evils; for time is the greatest innovator.

-- Francis Bacon


What we must decide is perhaps how we are valuable, rather than how valuable we are.

-- Edgar Friedenbar


Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are.

-- Bernice Johnson Reagon


A woman's feet should be planted in her country, but her eyes should survey the world.

-- Dakini


It's faith in something and enthusiasm for something that makes life worth living.

-- Oliver Wendell Holmes


Restlessness and discontent are the first necessities of progress.

-- Thomas Alva Edison


To travel hopefully is a better thing than to arrive, and the true success is to labour.

-- Robert Louis Stevenson


If people like you, they'll listen to you, but if they trust you, they'll do business with you.

-- Zig Ziglar


The past doesn't equal the future.

-- Anthony Robbins


What we see depends mainly on what we look for.

-- Sir John Lubbock


Never tell people how to do things. Tell them what to do and they will surprise you with their ingenuity.

-- George S. Patton


The greatest mistake you can make in life is to be continually fearing that you will make one.

-- Elbert Hubbard


Yes, risk-taking is inherently failure-prone. Otherwise it would be called sure-thing-taking.

-- Tim McMahon


There is no security on this earth, there is only opportunity.

-- General Douglas MacArthur


Problems are only opportunities in work clothes.

-- Henry Kaiser


We are constantly invited to be who we are.

-- Henry David Thoreau


Yesterday I dared to struggle. Today I dare to win.

-- Bernadette Devlin











 


 





 

















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